7. Lack of empathy; is not willing to acknowledge or identify with the feelings and needs of others. THANK YOU for this post this week. I`m in the middle of a divorce and the narcissist and his lawyer slandered me in court and were incredibly (OK, believable) abusive. Mel – your memories are priceless. It`s incredibly difficult, but I worked diligently on the documentation instead of focusing on the court`s insane comments. Divorce laws in my U.S. state favor the narcissist, but I will survive intact thanks to NARP`s support. Thank you Your narcissistic partner will not hesitate to use your children as a bargaining chip.
They don`t care how their actions affect your children. Do what you can to protect your children from being put in the middle of your custody battle. Promise to always tell them the truth and invite them to come to you with whatever your partner says about you, no matter how negative it is. Then my consultant introduced me to Mel`s work. I immediately bought their program. I worked for hours and weeks on Mel`s quantum modules. I knew I had a trial before me. I took a week off and didn`t do anything quantum healing (for hours and days). Eventually, I resolved the trauma in my body and was able to end the fight in court. These modules work. But you have to edit them.
Keep working on it. I mean, keep doing them even if you`re exhausted, desperate, anxious, etc. Continue. I do my best, but it`s taking a toll on my health, physical health, and mental health. The kids are definitely on him, that`s why they don`t really see him at all, but I always let him hurt me. I need to get stronger I will pray and keep you in my thoughts, as sad, This was neither my first nor my last relationship with narcissists. However, it was the only time I had to deal with one in a legal battle, and it was one of the worst moments of my life. After another relationship with another narcissist that was just as emotionally devastating as the relationship above, I had had enough, but I still felt like I was lost in a paper bag and couldn`t find my way.
What I want to offer you is a different perspective – and whether the people who “hurt” us were actually angels in disguise, pushing away our biggest wounds so that we can finally go inside, find them, let them go and free ourselves from them and never feel that pain again. as well as taking new paths in life that are not the old childhood traumas, such as “the people who are supposed to love me leaving me.” Many, many Thrivers in this community managed to achieve this goal and subsequently got the custody and property arrangements they wanted against the narcissists. For inspiration and additional information on how they did it, you can search Google My Name + Thriver Shows and listen to topics related to your situation. What should you do if you`re in a guard battle with what you believe or even know to be a narcissist? When escaping a narcissistic relationship, the key is to show the court (and your support team) the truth behind the mask. This probably includes witnessing some of your worst moments when dealing with this extremely conflicted personality. Narcissists in courteous environments are often incredibly charismatic, charming, and persuasive. Many lawyers and judges will not see through this person directly, and that is why it is so important for you to know how to fight a narcissist in legal proceedings in order to expose and win him. What`s even more painful is that while he is working with his lawyer to take everything we have, he asks his family members to convince me to return to our marital home and declares that he will do everything in his power to get me back!!!! How crooked can someone be?? Well, I decided to stop taking calls from him or his family and everything should be communicated via email or SMS. And I went back. I couldn`t have a baby on my own. My parents were uncomfortable.
I don`t know how I could have been that person. I`m only a few rungs up the ladder, but still. The straw that broke the camel`s back was 4 years later, pregnant and after a year of fertility made a miscarriage of our 2nd child. I thought I could surpass him in numbers. Fortunately, the Lord entered. I went back to the sidewalk because he was quiet and slept in another room with the door locked because he hadn`t asked for the doctor`s appointment. I often did this because I was woken up several times, because my ceiling was ripped off, or by being thrown out of bed with both feet. On the division of ownership. This guy lied so much, writing off over 80% of his income as business expenses, so he could take everything away from me.
Emotionally, I`m at the point where I`m indifferent to him – at least for the most part.